Consent Rules!

No = No. If a partner says it, believe it. Otherwise you will be turning your potential lover into your victim. It isn’t someone else’s responsibility to set our limits. If someone doesn’t say “no,” it certainly does not mean “yes.” No answer does not = yes. Too many males have acted without good information (or ignored clear messages). If either (or both) of you can’t (won’t) talk about sex and the possible consequences for a relationship, then it is much too soon to be sexual together. Submission does not = consent. Reasons that females might submit include: fear experience might have shown her that resistance, verbal or physical, doesn’t work and may even be punished additionally; fatigue She may become tired of fending us off. If you ask and someone says “I guess” or “Well, if you want to” or...


Reforming Masculinity
Stopping Rape

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Hi, I’m Joe Weinberg. I am a pioneering rape prevention speaker, trainer and author/educator. I have developed radically simple, “life-affirming” techniques that invite unlearning of the rape/abusive masculinity process. I’m telling men’s secrets. To men and anyone who wants to understand men better.  You’ve never heard a man talk like this. You’ve never heard anyone talk like this…